idiom / phrasal verb · neutral

get the wrong end of the stick

UK/ɡet ðə rɒŋ end əv ðə stɪk/US/ɡet ðə rɔːŋ end əv ðə stɪk/get the WRONG end of the STICK

speaking

to misunderstand a situation or someone's meaning

Examples

I think you've got the wrong end of the stick — she meant it as a joke.

He got the wrong end of the stick about the deadline and submitted late.

Don't get the wrong end of the stick; she wasn't criticising you.

Band 8 sentence

At first I thought she was angry, but I soon realised I had got the wrong end of the stick.

Collocations

  • get the wrong end of the stick about
  • not get the wrong end of the stick

Word family

get the wrong end of the stick idiomgot the wrong end of the stick past

Common mistakes

You got the wrong side of the stick.You got the wrong end of the stick.

I misunderstand you the wrong end.I got the wrong end of the stick.

Say it for a higher band

5misunderstand6get the picture7+get the wrong end of the stick

Synonyms

misunderstand

take the wrong way

Easily confused

get the picture

Do you get the picture of what we need to change?

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